Last Day at Baotou Pictures

Donna prepares to spot a boy to test his strength

Yay! What a strong boy!!

Donna makes a new friend

Dr. Meg plays a Dora matching card game with the kids

Lunch time in the baby room

Resting/playing after lunch

Classwork in the Half the Sky school

Last Day in Baotou

Today was our last VERY long day in Baotou. We managed to see all of the children and do some training with the nannies. Donna visited the rehab facility at the orphanage and showed the nannies how to use some of the equipment. I was able to give the nannies some tips for baby care as well and they were all very eager and interested in learning.

I was able to witness another transformation today that amazed me. There is a young deaf girl who is placed in a room with some children who are nonverbal. She has some very challenging behaviors there. But today I saw her in school and she was a completely different child! She was able to concentrate for a half hour on an activity with the rest of the kids and communicate her needs through gestures. She was even very bonded to her Teacher there. It was like night and day! That Half the Sky school makes such a difference for those kids! What a wonderful program!

Joy will post more pictures for me later--some of Donna doing her OT magic, some of the babies having lunch and one of the Half The Sky school in action.

More Pictures from Baotou

Fei checks out the Half the Sky-sponsored classroom

A close-up view of the classroom

A ball pit near the classroom

Fei shows what a big kid she really is

Dr. Meg loving on the kids

Oh boy! Legos!!

Time to show off our creations :)

Comparing notes on the kids at the end of the day

Transformations

It's hard to get to know a child in such a short amount of time, much less 100's of children! Today we got to hear about transformations, and we saw some in person, which was pretty incredible. There's a little girl who was so incredibly nervous that she was shaking and wouldn't answer our questions, even after some distractions and games. Today we visited the Half The Sky sponsored school at the orphanage and learned that although she is incredibly shy, she is doing quite well. It was such a relief to find out how much progress she has made. When we went into her room after the school tour, she came out of her shell again, giggling and sharing Legos with us. I was very pleased to see what a great school they have there at the orphanage, and it's clear they're really making a difference in the children's lives who participate. The teachers were so caring and willing to share about each child when we asked. They keep a binder on each child with information and pictures from each week that they are there participating to tell how they are progressing. Pretty amazing!

We also met another older boy today who really wants to be adopted. I'm not sure he totally understands adoption, but he definitely wants out of there and wants to go to the States. He is interested in learning English and wants a Mama and a Baba. He's a very sweet boy who seems pretty intelligent. Unfortunately they have him labeled incorrectly and he's not getting the attention he so deserves. He kept asking if he would get to leave with us and when he could go to the states. Sigh...if only it were that easy!

Later the Oregon staff will post some great pictures of the kids playing with Legos, another of Dr. Hayes with a few of the kids and some of the Half They Sky school. Stay tuned for our last day in Baotou tomorrow! Then we're on to visit some of the kids who are in Beijing for medical care.....

New Pictures from Baotou

A peek into the infant/toddler playroom at Baotou

(that's Fei in the checked shirt holding one of the

resident cuties)

Little ones showing off their crayon skills

Donna (the therapist) playing/evaluating one of the kids

Time to play outside on the patio

Watch us! We want to show you our latest game!!

Fei, Donna and Dr. Meg take in the local sights

Updates from Baotou

This has been such a busy trip, I've hardly had time to write! We leave around 7:30am and get home around 8:30pm and then deal with urgent issues before moving onto trying to provides some pictures and updates. But I'm sure you don't want to hear about that!

Today Fei and I got to spend time oogling with the babies under a year--I had forgotten how tiny they are at that age! What fun! This orphanage does seem to have a lot of young children! The nannies and the orphanage staff and Directors all seem very interested in learning from our team, which is great! They are so caring and loving towards the children. One baby boy stole our hearts in there. he has a very serious heart condition and is blue most of the time. We need to see if we can find any doctors who would agree to do surgery on him. This boy has fight in him! Even thought I'm sure he doesn't feel well most of the time, and clearly has no energy, he still found the spunk to grab my hair and pull hard:-) He has bright eyes and you can just tell he is meant for great things if he can just get some help.

We also had the experience of meeting 4 newborns today! The little sweeties didn't even open their eyes, they were just so new to the world!

There are a couple of older boys that have stolen all of our hearts! They want to be adopted and the orphanage wants us to help them find families, which I think we are all motivated to do. I have never met such happy go lucky, polite and goofy little guys:-) They bring a smile to our faces each time we see them. The kids have all gotten used to us walking through the orphanage, asking questions, taking pictures and notes.

I have technical difficulty posting pictures from here, so I'm shrinking and sending them to the Oregon staff to help do that. I've taken a LOT of pictures, which I'll post more of when I get back, but for now you'll have to be satisfied with what I can send through email:-) Many of the pictures will have to go on our password protected website as well. Stay tuned!

Baotou Beauties

Today was a busy day meeting kids so I'm going to make this post short (besides...the attached pictures really speak for themselves!) I'll try to write more soon.

Warm Welcomes

We arrived in Baotou yesterday unfortunately without Donna, our Occupational Therapist. She has been a trooper, though! The tornadoes causes quite the adventure for her in her travels! She just arrived here in Baotou late last night and I'm sure she's exhausted! Her luggage has yet to be found... The rest of us arrived without a hitch and received a very warm welcome from the provincial and orphanage officials with a lunch banquet in a traditional mongolian yurt. It was beautiful, with Traditional Mongolian singers serenading us towards the end of lunch. I wish I could describe the scenery here--it was quite striking with yurts surrounding a pond, sheep wondering the property, frolicking (and then ending up lunch) and a sand storm blowing in through all of the trees surrounding the yurts.

I'm sure you would rather here about the orphange....no? We didn't arrive at the orphanage until late in the afternoon. Dr. Hayes had a chance to evaluate a group of infants/toddlers in the baby room. I started with some of the older children and worked my way around to the babies. Most of the kids are quite interested in Westerners, but a little shy at first. I don't think they have had much exposure to Westerners. The orphanage staff seems quite helpful and kind hearted. I was pleased to see that the nannies were loving with the babies, giving them hugs, encouraging them to walk or crawl or creep, and celebrating their achievements with them. They are quite good with the older children as well. I asked who their favorite nannies were, and they each seemed to have one that they're very close with. The children I talked with all made very good eye contact and responded appropriately. I didn't see any signs of attachment issues in the children I saw yesterday. Hopefully today we will get more time there. More updates later...stay tuned.

Busy Bees

The office is abuzz with the preparations for our trip to Baotou coming up. Fei is leaving tomorrow! She is first going to Beijing to meet with some officials at the CCCWA and then the rest of our team will meet in Beijing on Sunday night and fly to Baotou early Monday morning to get started with the children. We're looking forward to meeting those little faces we've seen by video and look forward to sharing pictures with you as we're over there!

Welcome to Baotou!

Welcome to Baotou!!!! Below are some pictures of the orphanage we are working with in our Brighter Futures program. Our China Director is there right now taking care of business for us so we can get right to work with the kids when we arrive. She is also sending back some pictures and video and the kids look adorable! We can't post pictures of them here, but when we know which files we will get, we hope to be able to post those pictures on our password protected website.

Stay tuned for more information to come....

Brighter Futures Exciting News!

I have some very exciting news to share regarding our Brighter Futures program in Baotou, Inner Mongolia! Fei and I will be traveling to Baotou, along with a team of an International Adoption Doctor and an Occupational Therapist! We will be leaving April 23rd and returning May 1st. We're very excited to have this excellent team of professionals joining our program! We will be able to obtain much more thorough information and more accurate diagnoses on the children with the addition of these specialists. Their dedication to this cause means so much and we thank them wholeheartedly! We can't wait to report back about the children we visit! Stay tuned...

Children with Grants

Our generous donor helped me to realize that I may not have been very clear about these kids with Grants. First let me update you--Marie is no longer available. The other 4 who age out in June and July (Jessica, Perry, Foster, Lee and Hansen) are available to families who have dossiers logged in already. They have $5000 grants available to families adopting them! The other 3 children, Leroy, Foster and Heath age out towards the end of 2011. They are available to anyone willing to work like the wind to bring them home--you do not have to have started the process yet! If you don't quite meet the requirements, never fear! Just contact me anyway if you have interest in these 3 boys! Waivers may be possible! They need families and we're willing to work our rear's off if you are to bring them home--we just need families who want to make these boys part of their forever families. There are $5000 grants available to help families bring these boys home, but don't delay! There's no time for that! Let's get these boys home: marcisk@asiadopt.org

Help a Child Day!

If you're reading this, these children need YOUR help! You don't have to adopt them if that's not right for you, but help spread the word to other families! Today is your day to help a child! We have 5 children about to age out of being eligible for adoption in the next few months! Their only hope is people like you who will spread the word about them to other adoptive families....families who may already be logged in, or a ways into the process. That's the only chance these five kids at having a life that is not filled with the stigma of being an orphan, and going around in life as "unlucky." These kids all have grants associated with their adoptions! So what some family may have thought wasn't possible, is now possible! Please tell everyone you know in the adoption community about these children. We also have 3 others who age out within the year (2011) with grants, and for those it may be possible for families without dossiers logged in to pursue them. Please take a stand and help these children find their forever families and experience a life with potential and encouragement!

3 More Boys in need of families!

We have up to $5000 grants on each of these children who age out before the end of 2011!

Foster is in 4th grade and does well at school. He studies hard, is clever and fond of learning. He is outgoing and curious about new things. He has a good command of language, asks many questions and is fond of singing and dancing. He has good rhythm. He likes watching TV and playing badminton. He has a good appetite and is not picky. Could you be the forever family that Foster has been waiting for all this time? THERE IS A GRANT UP TO $5000 AVAILABLE FOR FOSTER

Heath is clever and likes to learn. He is somewhat shy, but is intelligent and gets along well with others. His language ability is good and he is receiving good marks in 4th grade. He likes math the most. He gets good comments from his teachers. He likes to eat fish, meat and fruits, but is not picky. He has a close relationship with his foster parents, but wants to be adopted into a forever family. Are you the family to help his dreams come true before December? THERE IS A GRANT UP TO $5000 AVAILABLE FOR HEATH

Leroy is active and extroverted, but is shy when he meets new people. He gets along well with his classmates and teachers. In 2007 he was in grade 3 and doing well academically. He can be naughty, such as coming home from school covered in dirt, but he is very obedient with his teachers, helping them to clean the chalkboard and empty the dustbin. He has been part of the Little Sisters program. Leroy had a family until he was four years old and needs a forever family to come forward and adopt him before December. THERE IS A GRANT UP TO $5000 AVAILABLE FOR LEROY!

Please see ASIA's waiting child section of the website for more detailed information about these children, or contact me if you are interested in viewing their files: marcisk@asiadopt.org

Brighter Futures!

ASIA is excited to share more details about our Brighter Futures program! ASIA is pairing with Baotou Social Welfare Institute in Inner Mongolia! We are very excited to have the opportunity to help this orphanage! We have received a preliminary listing of the children there that will need to be registered for adoption. There is a surprising number of really young children! The children range in age from newborns up to 13 years old and have special needs such as cleft lip and palate, heart conditions, limb differences, digestive disease, vision and/or hearing issues as well as conditions that could be more serious like cerebral palsy and down syndrome. Two ASIA staff members are planning to visit the orphanage towards the end of April to help begin the process of registering the children for adoption and doing evaluations on the children. We will also take the opportunity to take additional pictures and video, like we did for the Hope Journey Programs. We will gather as much information as we can about the children to help them find the families that were meant to be theirs.

We do not expect to receive the files of these children for several months, as their medical reports have not yet been done and they will then need to be translated and approved. ASIA families with dossiers logged in and other ASIA families will have priority for these children, and then they will become available to all other families interested. ASIA is extremely excited to partner with Baotou and we look forward to sharing more details as they unfold.

In Desperate Need of Families NOW!

These five children are all aging out in the next few months!!! There are GRANTS available for all 5 of these kids! We need families who already have their dossiers logged in, or are extremely close, to adopt these children. If you're interested, please contact Marci: marcisk@asiadopt.org

Jessica is active and extroverted. She has formed close bonds with her caretakers and is a happy girl. She is a smart girl and communicates well with others. She helps the caretakers do housework actively. She has normal physical and mental development.

Marie is a beautiful, extroverted and clever girl who is loved by everyone. She gets good marks in schools. In 2009 she was in grade 6 and went happily to school and listened to her teachers. She takes good care of herself, can run and jump freely, sweeps the floors voluntarily, makes the bed and wipes the desk. She is well behaved and popular.

Perry is shy, but gets along well with others. In 2009 he was doing well in grade 1 at school. He lives with a foster family and is able to get along with his classmates at school and finish his homework by himself. He has good language skills and can take care of himself. He has a slight limp, but is able to walk well. He has some trouble running and jumping. He likes watching TV and chatting with his foster family at home. His foster parents take him out for walks often to help his muscles.

Lee was found and sent to live in the orphanage when he was 10 years old. Despite being abandoned at an older age, they have taken such good care of him at the orphanage that he is filled with trust in his life. He is active and loves to smile. He loves to play outside and gets along with the nannies and other children very well. He is a very polite young man. He is a very bright boy, but he doesn’t like to study. He has written that he wishes to be adopted, but his time is running out!

Hansen is a bright child who likes playing basketball, bike riding, traveling, drawing and doing housework. He wants a family and understands that foreigners will speak a different language. He promises to get along with brothers and sisters and will study hard. He wants a mother and father to love him.

"Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit."
-e.e. cummings

How perfect for the world of adoption!

Welcome Back Singles!

You may have heard the hulabaloo about singles and this time it's true! CCAA has decided to allow single females to adopt Special Focus children! There are some additional requirements for singles, but this means children like Harold, Thomas, Fabian, Michael, Shawn, Henry, CJ and Kerry will have a better chance at finding a family! We at ASIA are thrilled at this development! We have long been an agency that has advocated for singles and now we can do that once again through China special needs! This gives me so much hope that more children will find families instead of sitting on the waiting child list for years. We are thrilled to welcome back singles into the China special needs program!

Parker, Fabian and Harold

Fabian and Harold both have families now! We are thrilled for them!

Do you remember Harold, Fabian and Parker? Well, we just found out that their Social Welfare Institute is willing to waive their orphanage donations so they can be adopted! If money was stopping you from pursuing one of these older boys, please contact me! They are still on the shared list, still needing families! Here are some reminders of who they are:

Harold is the sweetest little boy who is a very talented musician. He smiles often, but is shy around strangers. He loves to play badminton and music. He wants to be a police officer when he grows up to catch thieves.

Fabian is really into comic books and is a talented artist. He likes to teach younger kids to draw. He also likes to play the curcurbit flute. He is in the 5th grade and is very conscientious.

Parker is shy as well, but very kind hearted. When his foster mother is sick, he is very compassionate and offers to help take care of her. He is quiet, although he has friends in school. He is also in the 5th grade and has a good attitude about learning.

Treasure Each Day

There are some things in life that make you wake up and realize you need to treasure each day, savour each moment with your children, and if you're thinking about creating a family, or adding to yours, don't wait. You never know what the future will hold, but a child's mind is a wondrous thing! They are filled with such wonder and joy at the simplest things. There's nothing better than having an excuse to act like a kid again with your child:-)

Whenever I thought about being a parent, I always thought about Halloween because it is one of my favorite holidays, and being a parent gives me the perfect excuse to go to the pumpkin patch, carve pumpkins and do all the things that I love about Halloween! Now that I am a parent, it's not just Halloween I love, but every day I get to see my child discover new things, tell me stories in her own way or just be goofy and fun. For me, there is no greater joy than being a parent and I get to see that joy in others, too.

I'm happy to report that a family is working very hard to be able to adopt Milly! I'm also happy to report that there has been some interest in the Hope Journey II kids, even though their files are now on the shared list. I continue to share their pictures and videos with folks asking, which gives me hope. I was afraid they would get lost on that list, but they haven't! So my hope has returned. So on that hopeful note, I leave you with hope for the future. Happy Weekend!